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  • Olajuwon Lawal
    February 7, 2020

    I think this piece is for me. I kind of have the fear of being corrected. Am always afraid I will do things wrong. Thanks for the motivation. I needed this

  • Chioma Okocha
    February 7, 2020

    The social media is the number 1 killer of self esteem. Most of our youth have really low self esteem because of the wanna be mentality. They want to be like one celebrity out there and thereby live fake lives. I think they need this the more. Thanks

  • Daniel
    February 7, 2020

    I once met an individual who so profess poverty to himself. He believes he won’t make it because his parents are poor. I had to act as a mentor to get rid of such belief. It took time though, but now am happy to say that he runs his own boutique now. A self made man.

  • Okorie Chikodi
    February 7, 2020

    successful people have fear, successful people have doubts, and successful people have worries. They just don’t let this feelings stop them. Thanks for the motivation.

  • Oluwajomiloju
    February 7, 2020

    I believe we all have our individual lives to live. A life we need to design for our lives. Not trying to be other people who will do not even know how they got to the top of the ladder as it may seems to us.

  • Ige Oluwasegun
    February 7, 2020

    Nice motivation. Thanks

  • SibesibeOluwanbepelumi
    February 7, 2020

    For instance, a lady comparing her look with that of famous models or a man comparing her finances with the wealthiest in society…That is covetousness

  • Ben Ubong
    February 7, 2020

    Nice one. Thanks.

  • Ruth Onuoha
    February 7, 2020

    Highly motivational

  • Uloma Eberechi
    February 7, 2020

    Nice post

  • Temitope Oluwaseun
    February 8, 2020

    Highly motivational. Nice

  • Babajide Amos
    February 8, 2020

    Good one. You are on point.

  • Adua Irene
    February 8, 2020

    If we relate this post to the effective parenting poats , we will discovery that most parents are the cause of low self esteem in their children. For example a parents who has a domineering or authoritative spirit over everything the child does, gives no room for the child’s self exploration, discovery and decision making. Such child becomes timid and cannot make decisions on his own. Such child will never have any confidence in himself to make any sole decision, not to talk of having self esteem. This is my take on this.

    • Abiola Inumidun
      February 8, 2020

      @I 100% agree with you.

    • Remi Bankole
      February 8, 2020

      @Adua, You summed it up all well.

  • Yomi
    February 8, 2020

    Educative post. Thanks.

  • Osaitin Edokpagbe
    February 8, 2020

    True talk. Comparing yourself with other people’s achievement is an easy part to sudden demise

  • Anyawu Jidenna
    February 8, 2020

    I had to grow to love my body. I did not have a good self-image at first. Finally it occurred to me, I’m either going to love me or hate me. And I chose to love myself. Then everything kind of sprung from there. Things that I thought weren’t attractive became sexy. Confidence makes you sexy

  • Kufre Obong
    February 8, 2020

    I think once one learn to love one’s self and appreciate oneself as a unique creature created by the Supreme God of all, then non-self esteem will be a thing of the past.

  • Omole Adenike
    February 8, 2020

    As I read through this post, I felt I should share this sayings from Mariam Williamson. Over time it has really inspired me. I actually have it laminated and placed on the wall of my room.

    “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

  • David Oreva
    February 9, 2020

    Nice post

  • Nike Benson Demilade
    February 9, 2020

    Confidence goes with self esteem and has nothing to do with what you look like. If you’re obsess over that, you’ll end up being disappointed in yourself all the time. Instead, high self-esteem comes from how you feel in any moment. So walk into a room acting like you’re in charge, and spend your energy on making the people around you happy.

  • Chizoba Eretha
    February 10, 2020

    I have actually lost more opportunities in life because of my lack of self esteem and confidence , but now am a change person and live life like I should.

  • Ibrahim Saheed
    February 10, 2020

    Interesting and motivational.

  • Oluwanifemi
    February 10, 2020

    This topic should be taught in schools. Students will need it while in school and when they live to face the world. Thank you

  • Brother James
    February 10, 2020

    Good content. Well done

  • Enitan Ibunjunoluwa Jacobs
    February 10, 2020

    Thanks for the motivation. God bless you.

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